Disagreements and interpersonal tension are preventing your team from shipping
quickly. As the product leader, you need them to get past the storming phase and
get to performing quickly.
Team cohesion is of utmost importance and is most at risk in fast-paced
environments where friction is highly disruptive. Instead of avoiding tough
conversations, work with a partner who has
firsthand experience with the stresses of their work to coach them to resolve
their disagreements and focus on shipping.
If your team works on new product development, this is essential even if it may not seem like it. In other situations, some signals include: the team doesn't seem to have many disagreements, team members are quiet and do not voice dissent, elephants in the room are ignored, there are major organizational changes, or the team struggles with execution.
Effective communication keeps the team healthy and working smoothly. It prevents frustrations from building up and team members from burning out or quitting abruptly, which would hinder progress in product development.
We'll use a framework for giving and receiving feedback aligned with Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and Stanford's Interpersonal Dynamics (Touchy Feely), both well-established methods with a proven track record of improving communication.
With over 10 years of experience facing similar challenges in startups and other fast-paced environments, I intimately understand these difficulties. My personal experience applying the framework in such situations has transformed stressful moments into productive learning experiences that strengthen relationships. Disagreements are unavoidable, but we're not powerless to change them.
I have spent over 100 hours in T-groups and work situations giving and receiving feedback. I have has also trained over 50 people, helping to improve their team communication. The team will learn the theory and practice applying it. Like any skill, communication will improve with continuous practice, and will become easier over time.
Managing people challenges is often more demanding and emotionally taxing than dealing with technical issues. While team members may have trained for years in engineering, design, and other technical areas, many have never learned this essential skill. To advance to senior roles, team members must be able to build strong working relationships.
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